By Rori Raye
Do you think that you are fabulous and that you can have everything you want – including the relationship of your dreams? If not, it’s time to do some re–thinking if you want to get your husband back.
If there’s something inside of you that in any way makes you think you aren’t worthy of your husband’s love, passion, and attention, then he will sense that. He will also sense when you shift your perspective to that of a woman who believes she is wonderful and that the close, connected relationship she wants is possible.
You can have the love of a man who will worship at your feet and treat you like his queen. So, if your husband’s not acting this way anymore and you want to get your husband back, the first thing you need to do is to believe it’s possible.
Self–esteem is the key to getting – and keeping – love from a man. If you don’t have self–esteem, you won’t have what I call a High Degree of Difficulty.
That’s when a man perceives that you honor and respect yourself, and you know what you will or will not tolerate. This makes you incredibly attractive to a man and is what can make your husband fall more in love with you every day.
So what do you do if, after years of marriage, you’re not feeling so good about yourself? Here’s the good news: you can instantly raise your Degree of Difficulty and get your husband back.
You do this by being good to yourself – by pampering yourself, doing activities you like, taking care of yourself, and redirecting all that energy you spent on trying to fix your marriage to yourself.
Once you stop working so hard to try to get your husband back and instead take the time you need for you, something incredible happens. You’ll feel so much better about yourself, and your husband will see that you’re a woman who puts herself first.
Suddenly, he’ll see the woman who attracted him so deeply during the early stages of your relationship, and his passion will be re–ignited.
If you want to get your husband back to that place where you felt so secure and loved and happy, here is my one rule for you: focus on making yourself happy every moment of your life.
This might seem counterintuitive at first – aren’t we women supposed to make our men happy? Well yes, but it’s not how you might think. That’s because what makes a good man happy is to make us happy!
Good men like to give you presents, they like to take you out, they like to call you, they like to be faithful to you, and they like the way it feels when you feel good about yourself when you’re with them.
Moreover, they like the way it feels when you let them know you feel good. So, simply start expecting your husband will do his best to make you happy – without asking him to – and let him know when he does make you happy.
Follow these guidelines and you’ll not only get your husband back, but you’ll be on your way to more love than you ever imagined.
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